Do’s and Don’ts of Toasting Etiquette

Here are some additional tips to ensure that the toasts run smoothly and your guests enjoy the time they have with each other:

• In many cultures, it is bad etiquette to toast with an empty glass. Ensure that all guests have a drink and that you have non-alcoholic options.
• If you are the host, please welcome your guests and acknowledge anyone who put in extra effort to help with the celebration.
• Have a clear end to the toasting portion if more than one person is speaking. If you lead off, consider closing as well to conclude the toasts for the evening.
• The toast is not your opportunity to bring up past grudges, even benign ones. Focus on your guests having a great time rather than settling scores.
• Above all, shine the spotlight on the purpose of the occasion and the shared stories that bring your guests together.

—Eddie Rice