When we join Toastmasters, we are given something remarkably rare: an audience.
From the very first speech—the Ice Breaker—we begin making choices about what we want to say. We take the story of our life so far and shape it into four to six minutes. What we include, what we leave out, and how we choose to tell it are decisions only we can make. No two Ice Breakers are ever the same, because no two stories—or two lives—are the same.
With every speech, we face familiar questions. What is it I want to say? How do I structure it? How do I make sure it resonates with the audience? Over time, I’ve added one more question—one that challenges me and sharpens my intention:
What do I want to change as a result of my speaking today?
Sometimes the answer is simple. I want to take a step forward. To stretch beyond my comfort zone. To build confidence, one speech at a time. At other times, the answer is more ambitious—it’s about giving voice to something I care deeply about and believe needs to be said.
From the very first speech, we begin making choices about what we want to say.
I remember giving a speech that allowed me to pay tribute to my two grandmothers—two very different women who shaped how I saw myself and my place in the world. That speech mattered deeply to me, and I could sense the audience leaning in with me. It reminded me that authenticity is what creates connection.
Each time we stand up to speak, we have an opportunity—to say something meaningful, to be heard, and perhaps to influence change. That change might be subtle. It might start with us. Or it might spark something in someone listening quietly from the back of the room, long after the meeting has ended.
I often say that when you become a Toastmaster, you are guaranteed two things: an audience and applause. An audience is a gift of attention. Applause is an act of generosity.
Speaking to an audience is a privilege—one I try never to take lightly. I remind myself that every speech is an opportunity to add value, whether through insight, vulnerability, humor, or courage.
So the next time you prepare a speech, pause and ask yourself: What do I want to say—and what do I want to change?
Because your voice matters. And only you can tell the story that needs to be heard.
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Aletta Rochat, DTM , is the 2025–2026 International President of Toastmasters International. Learn more about her on the Board of Directors page.
